picker x: this wall's own pane counts as an 'other', so ending a session you alone hold takes two presses

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From the wall-is-the-layout branch (2026-09-02). pickEnd asks end_req on a side connection, so the daemon's OTHERS count includes this wall's own pane on that session: a session only you hold shows '[NAME: 1 others attached - x again to end]' and needs the second press. Ruled by design for now (the pane IS a client; the count is honest; the second press is safe). Decide: auto-force when the only other holder is this wall's own live pane, or keep the two-step. The 09_hosts picker-x leg pins '2 others' and moves with this decision. Also: session rows say 'N clients' (total) while the refusal says 'N others' — two numbers about one fact.